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孩子学习拖拉这些原因家长有没有注意?
来源:http://www.lushipeixun.com 发布时间:2017-11-13

一:超越畏难情绪
A: beyond fear
原因:
Reason:
孩子畏难情绪,认为任务给他的心理压力超过自己的上限.我接触到的7岁孩子玉玉就是一个典型的例子.我让她描红数字,她立马就在那里左顾右盼地说:"太多了太多了.我肯定描不完."我于是鼓励她说:"你描完了,我就奖励你玩一会你爱玩的拼图."
The children fear, that task to his own psychological pressure exceeds the limit. I contacted the 7 year old Yu Yu is a typical example. I let her 2 numbers, she will be there and said: "too much too much. I'm sure. No end." so I encouraged her said: "you were finished, I'll reward you play your favorite puzzle"
在跟孩子交流的过程中,我发觉孩子真的从心理上认为自己完不成任务,于是只让她做其中四分之一就让她玩拼图,她爽快地答应了.后来我又接着让她做另外四分之一,她有了上次成功的经验,更加爽快答应,后来的任务就是这样一点一点分配给她.下一次我就鼓励她一次做三分之一,慢慢地二分之一,后一面全做完.孩子的自觉性越来越强了.
In the process of communication with your child, I found the child really psychologically that they finish the task, so just let her do the 1/4 let her play with puzzles, she readily agreed. Later, then I let her do the other 1/4, she is the last successful experience, more readily agreed to, then the task is such a little bit assigned to her. Next time I would encourage her to do a 1/3, 1/2 slowly, finally one side done. More and more strong consciousness of children.
方法:
Method:
孩子因为觉得任务太多而迟迟不肯动手时,家长需要把任务分成几个小块,每次只完成其中一个小块就给予孩子一定的休息时间,这样孩子就更有信心开始着手学习.
When the child is too slow to do the task, the parents need to divide the task into several small blocks, and each time they finish one of the small pieces, they give the child a rest time, so that the child is more confident to start learning
二:关注孩子身体能力原因:
Two: pay attention to children's physical ability reasons:
孩子身体能力不足,无法长时间集中注意力.我接触到8岁的麻豆就是如此,坐一两分钟,就会随意走动,左顾右盼.需要动好一会才能安静片刻.导致这样的原因一般是孩子的前庭不稳定,刺激不足,需要通过不停的动来让自己平衡.后来我们让孩子多进行一些拍球、走平衡木、荡秋千等运动,刺激孩子的大脑,让孩子能够安静下来.
The child's physical ability is insufficient, can not be a long time to concentrate. I come into contact with the 8 year old Ma Dou is so, sit for one or two minutes, will walk around, looked around. Need a long time to be quiet for a moment. The reason is the child's vestibular instability, stimulate the foot, need to keep moving to your balance. Then we let the children take some balls, walking on a balance beam and swing motion, to stimulate the child's brain, let the children to be quiet.
方法:
Method:
当发觉孩子注意力不集中导致拖拉时,就需要去锻炼孩子的注意力,尤其是身体能力,让孩子能够安静下来.千万不要训斥孩子.只要做到提醒孩子他们偏离目标就够了.一开始不要对孩子安静下来的时间要求过高,引导孩子渐渐"刷新纪录".应当让孩子动静结合,在孩子学习15分钟至30分钟后安排活动,这样更能保证安静的"质量".
When a child can not concentrate cause drag, you will need to exercise the child's attention, especially physical ability, let the children be quiet. Don't scold children. As long as they do to remind the child from the target is enough. Do not ask too much of a child quiet time, to guide the children gradually "record" should let the children combine in children 15 to 30 minutes after the activities, this can ensure the quiet "quality".

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三:清除环境中的诱惑原因:
Three: clear the reasons for temptation in the environment:
环境中诱惑太多.例如上面提到的乐乐就是环境中有动画片这个诱惑吸引着他.要想让孩子能够把学习放在更重要的位置,减少环境中的诱惑是很重要的.
There are too many temptations in the environment. For example, the Lele mentioned above is the cartoon in the environment, which attracts him. It is important to let the children put learning in a more important position and reduce the temptation in the environment
方法:
Method:
方法当环境中有太多影响孩子学习的因素,一定要去根除.例如,做作业的房间好不要有电子产品和零食.
Methods when there are too many factors affecting children's learning in the environment, we must eradicate. For example, the homework room is best not to have electronic products and snacks
四:奖惩要明确原因:
Four: rewards and punishments should be clear reasons:
奖惩不明确,孩子主动学习和拖拉的代价一样的.就如我们成年人都会有这样的感受,有时公司的工作,明明提前一个星期就交代了,我们却要拖到后一天晚上熬夜完成.因为并没有影响到工作,所以很多人就并不会太在意.要是影响到工作了或者公司的制度是越早完成越好,大家的积极性也会更高.孩子也是如此,如果说他们拖到后一刻才完成和积极主动完成,结果都一样,他们可能就会习惯拖到后一刻.
Reward and punishment are not clear, like children active learning and dragging cost. As adults we will have such a feeling, sometimes the company's work, when a week earlier on account, but we have to wait until the last day. Because of staying up late at night and did not affect the work, so a lot of people do not care too much. If affect the work or the system of the company is more complete and better early, everyone's enthusiasm will be higher. So the children, if they say until the last minute and actively take the initiative to complete, the results are the same, they can be used until the last minute.
方法:
Method:
鼓励孩子积极主动的学习,奖惩要明确,这样孩子才会更加主动.
Encourage children to actively study, reward and punishment should be clear, so that children will be more active
招数五:克服学习困难原因:
Trick five: overcome the reasons for learning difficulties:
孩子学习存在困难.针对这样的情况,那就不用多说,家长先要解决的就是帮助孩子扎实基础知识.
Children learning difficulties. For this case, it does not need to say that parents should first solve the problem is to help children with a solid foundation of knowledge

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