One, the tone of trust.
Children especially want to be trusted by adults, especially parents, so they have to show full confidence when they speak to their children. For example, children want to learn to play badminton, you use the tone of the Trust said: "stars, as long as you work hard and learn carefully, you can learn to play." This imperceptibly gives the child a confidence, and let him understand that only persistence can achieve success. If you use a sarcastic tone, "do you want to play the ball for three minutes like that?" It will hurt the child's self-esteem and make him unconfident about his ability.
Two, the tone of respect.
From the age of two or three, the child's self - consciousness is beginning to germinate, and the self - awareness will become stronger as the age grows. The child has some of his own opinions that the child knows his power and ability.
When a child puts forward his own different views and demands, do not think that he does not listen to you, does it with you, and opposes him rudely. If you ask the child to learn English, but he wanted to talk about playing buddies, you can not be angry: "the more not obedient, not Study hard, see you grow up what." This will only make the child more disgusted with learning. Should be respectful tone: "that you play for a while, however, comes to an end, you can be sure to learn english." The child was happy to accept it.
Three, the tone of the business.
Every child has a sense of pride. If you want a child to do something and talk about it, let him understand that he is equal to you and you respect him. For example, if you want your child to clear up the toys on the ground, you can say, "what a bad habit of stars and toys to throw away." can you clear up your toys with your mom?
Do not use the command of the tone: "what do you do, the toys are lost, hurry up to clean up!" Otherwise, the child listens to you to blame, the heart will have the repugnance, even if according to your request to do, is also unhappy.
Four, the tone of appreciation.
Every child has the advantages, the desire to show, the discovery of the children's advantages and appreciation, will make him more willing to show. The child draws a picture, perhaps not very well, but the enthusiasm and strength of the child's painting is the greatest advantage.
When the child holds the picture to you, you can't deal with a few words lightly. "Draw well and practice well." This will allow children to lose enthusiasm and confidence in painting. It should be admired to affirm his work: "I think my baby (baby food) painting so well, continue to work hard, will paint better." The child's expressive desire is satisfied, with a happy emotional experience, and more interested in painting.
Five, the mood of encouragement.
It is impossible for a child to do without fault. When a child is wrong, do not criticize the blame blindly, but help him to sum up his lessons, accumulate experience, and encourage him to succeed again.
As a child first end jobs to help his mother accidentally fell to the ground broken up. You can't blame him: "even a bowl is unstable, stupid." This will blow up the children's confidence and courage to try new things. The tone should be encouraged: "accidentally smashed a bowl of stars, never mind, after the first try with your fingers go hot not hot end."
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